Ways of BECOMING
HAPPY AS A SINGLE PARENT (2015/2016).
Even
when everyone knows how tough it is to cope as a single parent, yet there are
plenty of ways to be so happy as one, when you believe there is no any option
again. Single parents have a very hard time juggling parenting and being
single. Single parent is just a parent, not living with a spouse, who takes
most of the responsibilities of nursing and caring for the child/children.
Being a
single parent is never a sickness and also its not disease, don’t choose to
make it one by your orientation. Though, it is an extra task added to you and
believe me, there are extra benefits attached if you choose to become happy
with yourself. What are those things you must learn and understand if you choose
to be happy as a single parent? Do not forget that happiness is always a choice
that is independent of your state.
Ø CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY
The only medicine for the tough time
is called Happiness. When it seems things are getting tougher and difficult,
this is the best time you need to invite happiness into your ways. Tough
situations only come to frustrate and discourage, do not allow them to chase
the inbuilt happiness designed in you. Get to know more about yourself, being
without a partner is the best time to know much about yourself and become
comfortable when you are alone.
Go out alone with
interesting materials like your best books instead of staying at home and
worrying about you being alone. Do you want to be the happiest being ever? Then
appreciate every blessed day, appreciate yourself because you are wonderful,
appreciate your child/children because they are meant to change your life
positively.
Ø FOCUS AND SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN
More
than millions are out there praying, fasting and meeting medical experts daily
all in the name of I want to have a baby, many are ready to spend millions of
dollars on getting a baby of themselves. Many did not even have a womb to
conceive a baby.
There you are with a child or even children, common
dear, you get to celebrate and appreciate them. That is the greatest blessing
you can have, not even money. They are the center of your life, your joy, your
tomorrow, the testimony of your
sound health. Take care of them, give them your time, laugh and share stories
together, when they see you are traumatized and uncomfortable, and when
insecurity comes your way for being alone, they will sense it and respond by
eliminating your fear and bringing happiness your way. Single parent is not a
curse, if you see it as one, your children will blame you.
Ø CHANNEL YOUR CHILDREN TO POSITIVE AND
INFLUENCIAL ROLE MODELS
Involve
them with positive role models that you sure can influence their lives
positively that can stand the space of the missing parent, am not saying you
should get another man or woman as a substitute for their missing parent,
rather, exposing them to grandpas, aunts, uncles, friends and friend children.
Let them have safe contact with people who will encourage and make them better.
You can find great chance of this in the church, mosque e.t.c.
Ø MAKE YOUR CHILKDREN KNOW THAT YOU ARE
INDEPENDENTLY COMPLETE.
If your believe is that you cannot do anything good without a spouse,
this is what your children also we believe with you. If you decide that you are
an independently complete family without any one, they will also believe that
with you. If you did not find make that you can spend the rest of your time
with, don’t forget to still be happy because your children are your future.
Ø TAKE TIME TO BLESS, ENCOURAGE, ADVICE
YOUR CHILDREN
The first thing
everybody needs first from any situation is that they are safe and welcome to
share their mind freely with you and you have a listening spirit. There is a
particular stage in every child's life when the power of encouragement really
matters. As a single parent of children who are in this season of their life,
it should be a wonderful opportunity for you to look for ways to charge and
encourage them. How great will it be, if instead of spending time on conflicts
and unnecessary fight with them and distance that begins to show in your
relationship with them, why not take advantage of the time and do all you could
to pursue your children and become their most supportive gadget cheerleaders.
WHAT ARE THOSE FUNNY THINGS YOU CAN DO TO
MAKE YOUR FAMILY A COMPLETE FAMILY FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN EVEN WITHOUT A
SPOUSE?...FIND OUT IN THE NEXT VOLUME…
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